Ball point pens, tourism school and more...

This is Kara. I'm in Brussels processing the last week that Kayla and I had the honor to experience.  We only slept about 4 hours a night, missed a lot of meals and were in a constant state of motion because of the countless lists to complete and problems to solve.  That being said, the transformations in the children are beyond describable.  If I begin writing, I won't stop. Here is the summary:

Top 10 Moments for Imana Kids (1/2014)

1. Light  As in the kids eyes.  For real, they look more alive than we have ever seen them.  All the kids living at their new schools are positively glowing.  Their affect is no longer flat and all of them are eager to share everything they are doing, seeing and feeling.

2.  The Nannies We have hired three women to care for the preschool aged children daily.  Kayla worked with them to develop a routine, to use general preschool educational materials and to begin to provide more structure and discipline.  The most beautiful piece of their story is that each of them was formerly a prostitute.  They have all joined James' church, were baptized and now trying desperately to find alternative incomes from their previous lifestyle.  The empowerment that having this job with the little ones is giving them is so hopeful.  Kayla and I were able to visit with them, to write down their stories and to pray for them.  They expressed that seeing these little orphans has touched their hearts and that this is more than an job for them.  We are hoping that in the near future, we could get sponsors for each woman.  Additionally, Rosette, one of the three, will be starting an intensive English language program next week in the evenings. Good, good stuff.

3  Greens and bananas The good news is that they aren't as expensive as we had previously anticipated.  Rosette, as of Tuesday, January 21, be buying fresh fruit along with sweet potatoes and greens, on her way to the orphanage. Until this week, the kids were eating maize for lunch and rice and beans for dinner.  That was literally it.  Now our menu is porridge with milk (and a SPRINKLE of sugar, this was a battle between James and me) and fruit for breakfast, sweet potatoes, greens or peanut butter and bread for lunch and beans/rice and vegetables for dinner.  The eggs are coming...this isn't fabulous, but as James told me many times this week "Building a foundation in a building is very difficult. But when it is strong, you can keep building up."

4. Letters  The kids worked really hard on writing or drawing (or both) to their sponsors.  Some of them are making remarkable progress, asking "How is life in Nebraska?" or "Please kiss your baby from me" while others are copying the exact letter that their sponsor wrote to them because they don't yet know English but they desire to communicate with their sponsor family.  ***Side note: the teachers will be working with the kids on letter writing. Please disregard any comments regarding "needing a phone" or bike or whatever.  Orphans are especially vulnerable and a product of their environment.  We apologize and we ask for grace...

5. Saturday mornings Our primary age kids are at Good Harvest while the secondary students live at High Hill Academy.  They are only a few blocks from each other and the headmasters of each school have given James permission to accompany the older kids to visit the primary students each Saturday.  They get to all walk together to see each other.  Watching their little reunion will be burned on my memory for a long time.
6. Character  Both of the headmasters at primary and secondary expressed to me on more than one occasion that they are really enjoying our kids.  The describe Imana Kids as being well behaved and "loving."  Kayla, the teacher, is quick to point out that all kids behave this way at the beginning of the school year!  However, we are excited and proud that so far, so good.  Also, we are thrilled that one of our teenage boys, who has had almost no education in his life, has chosen to be in P2 (~1st grade) despite being 14.  He is also making eye contact now and smiling.  The kids are all encouraging him and his teachers express his leadership qualities.
7.  Faith building  Some of you may have previously seen the baptism pictures.  James baptized 26 kids/young adults on their own request.  Now they have taken the initiative to hold prayer meetings together at their schools.  This is their salvation.  This matters more than math or English or national exam scores.
8. Bic Pens James and I bought $256 (American, not francs) worth of notebooks.  We had forgotten to get two kids their pens earlier, so we added 4 ball point pens.  The merchant gave us two free out of four free. *insert sarcasm here*  I share this to give perspective on the situation, the needs and the vast ocean of contrast in our cultures.
9. Gratitude Every single Imana Kid is thrilled with their 2 pens, their 24 notebooks, their periodic table, the three pair of socks and 3 pair underwear.  Take the excitement of our American back to school shopping and multiply it by, like, 1 million.
10. James God has gifted James to lead and love these children.  He is patient, he is fatherly and when he speaks, he is full of wisdom and love.  Orphans haven't had consistency in their lives; they don't have an example of a father's love; gaining these kids' trust is  beyond remarkable.  On a personal note, James and I each wrote the same bible verse for the new year without knowledge of the other doing so.  Isaiah 43:19 "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." 
    

    Thank you for all of your prayers, we have felt them and we have needed them.  Their are still many, many mountains to climb.  But we can look down from our perch and see all the ways that God is springing up new life in a wasteland.  Please continue to pray that we each have wisdom and discernment regarding the children still not sponsored, the costs that arise and the spiritual  battles that wage on.  The board will mail out letters this weekend!

November isn't Enough

     November in the United States marks National Adoption Month.  With an 18 year history, the government originally started National Adoption Month in an effort to promote foster care and adoption.  Most states have one Saturday in the month of November in which family courts complete adoptions for free, waving court fees, paperwork fees and lawyer costs.  We love this.  All kids everywhere deserve a home.
     Orphan Sunday, the first Sunday of November, began in 2003 in Zambia by a group known as Orphan's Hope.  With origins in the evangelical church, it is now a global movement to create awareness of the plight of orphans everywhere.  Learn more here. 
We at Imana Kids have been using social media heavily this month, promoting a child a day that needs sponsored.  This is in part an effort to take advantage of this month as well as it is because school starts in Rwanda on January 6.  That's less than two months away!  The good news is that there are 60 kids sponsored!  We have families and individuals in 16 states and three countries that have committed to loving one child and changing their world.  It's exciting for us to see our sponsors' profiles come rolling in; we know that their lives are going to be shaped with the relationships that they develop with their sponsored child almost as much as their child's life will change.
      Here's the deal.  There are around 35 kids and young adults left to be sponsored.  Some of them have names and stories.  Some of them are faces that we can't match with a name or story because there isn't one That's a daily reminder to all of us just how ugly and unjust it is that kids don't have families.  Thank God that our heavenly Father knows their names, their stories and their hearts.
     Here's part two of the deal.  We don't want National Adoption Month to exist.  There shouldn't be an Orphan Sunday.  Accepting that there will always be orphans in world is like putting a cap on what God is capable of doing.  Each of us has something to give, to do, to invest toward ending the orphan crisis.  Adoption isn't a solution.  We love adoption; love, love, love it.  But adopting one child isn't going to end the poverty, the loneliness, the disease, the hate, the apathy and the death that is the cause of the problem.
     So what is the solution?  Of course, if every Christian in the world adopted an orphan, there wouldn't be orphans.  For one moment.  Until a parent died, another father went to jail and a mama died from dirty water.  The solution is in education and in healthcare; in delivering justice and compassion.  The solution is in using our gifts, our resources and our talents to stop the cycle here and now.  We are the church and we are one giant body.  We don't settle for answering that call just one month a year.  We ask God, "How do you want us to do this big thing?  How do You, God, use us to end this"
    We are doing this in one little corner of Kigali.  We are doing this through you all; with your compassion, your time and your support.  We are doing this by sending street kids to two beautiful schools filled with knowledge, tools and people that can empower these kids to change their future.  To be the last orphan in their corner.  We are doing this here and now.
     Even if you aren't sure that you can sponsor a child, would you consider emailing us your interest?  There are more needs for these children than only financial and we want to use every gift and talent we can to change each of our "kids" lives.

Profiles and stories of the kids of Kimisiagara Orphanage.